This will explain the difficulties that people have in their close relationships:
When incarnations occur there are always life lessons that have been planned before birth. These can be anything from learning about an abusive relationship, a child dying or just generally coping with life’s ups and downs. Most people find it hard to deal with the patterns which crop up in their lives. Once they understand that these are only patterns which crop up in their “fabric”, then they will be very much happier and healthier. Other people are there to show them certain aspects of themselves and the more they resist then the more they keep cropping up.